Shubamangala Safety Guidelines
1. Online Safety Practices
1.1 Protect Personal Information:
- Never share financial information
- Keep contact details private initially
- Use platform messaging system
- Be cautious with social media links
1.2 Recognize Red Flags:
- Requests for money or financial help
- Refusal to video call or meet
- Inconsistent stories or information
- Pressure for quick marriage decisions
- Avoidance of personal questions
2. Communication Safety
2.1 Initial Contact:
- Use platform messaging system
- Take time to know each other
- Ask meaningful questions
- Watch for inconsistent answers
2.2 Moving Off-Platform:
- Only after establishing trust
- Use temporary email if needed
- Keep phone calls brief initially
- Inform friends about communications
3. Meeting In Person Safely
3.1 First Meeting Preparation:
- Meet in public, well-lit areas
- Choose neutral locations
- Inform friends/family of plans
- Share meeting details with trusted person
3.2 During the Meeting:
- Stay in public areas initially
- Arrange your own transportation
- Keep personal items secure
- Stay sober and alert
- Trust your instincts
4. Financial Safety
4.1 Financial Scam Awareness:
- Never send money to anyone met online
- Beware of emergency fund requests
- No investment opportunities
- No business proposals
4.2 Financial Discussions:
- Discuss financial expectations openly
- Understand cultural differences
- Maintain financial independence initially
- Seek professional advice for major decisions
5. Emotional Safety
5.1 Take Your Time:
- Don’t rush important decisions
- Multiple meetings before commitments
- Involve family when appropriate
- Seek counseling if needed
5.2 Red Flags in Behavior:
- Controlling or possessive behavior
- Anger management issues
- Dishonesty about past or present
- Pressure for physical intimacy
6. Emergency Procedures
6.1 Immediate Danger:
- Contact local emergency services
- Remove yourself from situation
- Contact platform safety team
6.2 Suspicious Behavior:
- Report to platform immediately
- Block the user
- Preserve evidence of interactions
7. Cultural Considerations
7.1 Religious Compatibility:
- Discuss religious practices openly
- Understand denominational differences
- Respect religious traditions
- Consider family expectations
7.2 Family Involvement:
- Understand family role in decision-making
- Respect cultural family dynamics
- Communicate clearly with families
- Seek family approval when important
8. Platform Safety Features
8.1 Available Tools:
- Block and report users
- Photo verification options
- Profile privacy settings
- Communication monitoring
8.2 Our Safety Commitment:
- 24/7 safety monitoring
- Quick response to reports
- User education and resources
- Continuous safety improvements
