Shubamangala Safety Guidelines

1. Online Safety Practices

1.1 Protect Personal Information:

  • Never share financial information
  • Keep contact details private initially
  • Use platform messaging system
  • Be cautious with social media links

1.2 Recognize Red Flags:

  • Requests for money or financial help
  • Refusal to video call or meet
  • Inconsistent stories or information
  • Pressure for quick marriage decisions
  • Avoidance of personal questions

2. Communication Safety

2.1 Initial Contact:

  • Use platform messaging system
  • Take time to know each other
  • Ask meaningful questions
  • Watch for inconsistent answers

2.2 Moving Off-Platform:

  • Only after establishing trust
  • Use temporary email if needed
  • Keep phone calls brief initially
  • Inform friends about communications

3. Meeting In Person Safely

3.1 First Meeting Preparation:

  • Meet in public, well-lit areas
  • Choose neutral locations
  • Inform friends/family of plans
  • Share meeting details with trusted person

3.2 During the Meeting:

  • Stay in public areas initially
  • Arrange your own transportation
  • Keep personal items secure
  • Stay sober and alert
  • Trust your instincts

4. Financial Safety

4.1 Financial Scam Awareness:

  • Never send money to anyone met online
  • Beware of emergency fund requests
  • No investment opportunities
  • No business proposals

4.2 Financial Discussions:

  • Discuss financial expectations openly
  • Understand cultural differences
  • Maintain financial independence initially
  • Seek professional advice for major decisions

5. Emotional Safety

5.1 Take Your Time:

  • Don’t rush important decisions
  • Multiple meetings before commitments
  • Involve family when appropriate
  • Seek counseling if needed

5.2 Red Flags in Behavior:

  • Controlling or possessive behavior
  • Anger management issues
  • Dishonesty about past or present
  • Pressure for physical intimacy

6. Emergency Procedures

6.1 Immediate Danger:

  • Contact local emergency services
  • Remove yourself from situation
  • Contact platform safety team

6.2 Suspicious Behavior:

  • Report to platform immediately
  • Block the user
  • Preserve evidence of interactions

7. Cultural Considerations

7.1 Religious Compatibility:

  • Discuss religious practices openly
  • Understand denominational differences
  • Respect religious traditions
  • Consider family expectations

7.2 Family Involvement:

  • Understand family role in decision-making
  • Respect cultural family dynamics
  • Communicate clearly with families
  • Seek family approval when important

8. Platform Safety Features

8.1 Available Tools:

  • Block and report users
  • Photo verification options
  • Profile privacy settings
  • Communication monitoring

8.2 Our Safety Commitment:

  • 24/7 safety monitoring
  • Quick response to reports
  • User education and resources
  • Continuous safety improvements